Two different cultures strike your faith in yourself...

I just talked to my friend this morning.
our conversation accidently came to topic where he found that caucasian female is more independent than indo female. (WHAT!!!???)
My friend lives in OZ for nearly 20 years
He's (of course) indonesian. To the lure of his aspiration, he would happy to marry an indonesian female, since he has married with caucasian female two times, and didn't work out right as well.

In my point of view, he maybe confused (and still to date) about what he wants.
Not that, nor this..
So?
Perhaps he should firmly choose one of the two options. Marry with indonesian- and accept all the difference, including the way indonesian female talk - or simply marry the caucasians - and truly accept the uncomfortable feeling of being intimidated..akahahahahahhahahahaha...(laugh 1000 times till i cry:D)

each of us is different. So ones can't compare to other about their behaviour or things else..
Just accept it.
Please don't act on behalf of HONESTY to insult the way people talk..the way people speak..or things else...
You or other caucasian or foreigner may be smarter or better than other, but that doesn't make you are RIGHT

well i think, what you assumed as an independent( any caucasian female) is only about being egoistic..

See your reflection in mirror..
You're living in two different cultures
Don't let it strikes your faith...

Dedicated to my fellow..
Wish you the best..with all the differences...

~kruger~