"If somebody can make you happy, then she/he can make you unhappy too "

I recall one of the lines from the movie About a boy, Hugh grant said to the boy,
" If somebody can make you happy, then he/she can make you unhappy too"

that's totally true, but indeed we deny to agree with that opinion.
We strongly believe that every second of our happyness is made by someone...
that is because we adopted the idea of a social human,
that emphasize the demand of every human to/be helped by others.
Or simply because we exaggerate the meaning of it..

hmm, i once discussed the idea of happiness with my pals when i was in high school
The pop question was "where is the happiness?"
some answered with long explanation...
eventually - didn't know where it come from-
we came to the final conclusion, that happiness lies within our soul
for we don't need anything to make us happy..
for it is a matter of brain control
for happiness is only a state of mind...
it doesn't exist...

Is happiness tangible?
Happiness is
when you can buy everything.
when you got what you want (doesn't matter if you're really want it or not)
when people obey what you told..
when you're in a state of being adored, being worshipped,
or....(you can fill whatever in the blank area....)
or simply to say that happiness is about ruling or lead whoever, whatever in your way...

d'ya agree with that?

PS: if you agree with my opinion, I'll be so much happy..

`kruger`